Friday, February 4, 2011

Difference in the life of a gal and a guy!

Listed are some of the conversations they are having with their parents

1::

Gal : Mom I wanna learn to box.

Mom : are you crazy?! Don’t make it difficult for me to find a groom for u.

Dad: If you want to learn something, do something which others like.

Gal’s thoughts: (WTF!! M I supposed to do things only which others like??!!!!)

Guy: Mom, I have joined boxing classes.

Mom: wow!! My son is gonna box. Now I can tell all my frnds about it.

2::

Gal: Mom I want to go a consert, Sonu Nigam is coming. This might be a life time opportunity, I have VIP passes. Two of my friends are going. Its not a night out. We’ll return same day. It might get late but I’ll be careful.

Mom: You know how I feel about it. You simply don’t want me to live in peace. God!
How should I explain this gal. There is such a big difference between a gal and a guy.

Gal’s thoughts: (Is it my fault to be a gal?! And if I want different things than other gals. Is it my fault.?)

Guy: Mom,I going for a show with my friends. It might become a two day trip. Nothing is planned yet.

Mom: Go ahead son. Let me know if you need anything. I’ll talk to your dad, this is the age when you enjoy. Who knows whats gonna happen in future?! Go ahead son. Have fun, enjoy yourself.

3::

Gal: I’ll marry the guy you find for him and won’t question you once. But let me live my life now. Let me enjoy now. Who know what kind of husband I get in future?!

Mom: I don’t want to hear all this crap. You are talking as if we don’t care for you and will find someone who will not care for your needs. Enjoy as much you want after your marriage. I don’t want to hear all this.

Gal’s thought: ( I don’t have a life. My life sucks! What should I do?!)

Guy: Mom, this is the gal I want to marry. I love her. If you don’t accept her it will make me really sad.

Mom & Dad : with initial anger. Eventually everyone comes back on track. There’s no problem for the son. There might be some problem for the daughter-in-law.

4::

Mom: Look Beta we have given you so much freedom. You can eat whatever you want and have the job you want. We have never told you anything about it. Have we?! (Its not actually a question, so don’t try and answer). We are the best parents in the world. What else do you want us to do?

Gal: What!!! Now you want a control over the type of food I eat. And the place I work! You already control the cloths I wear. What is she trying to prove?!!

Dad: I want a daughter whom I can proudly present in the society. I want to tell everyone that’s my daughter she listens to everything I say.

Gals’ thought: ( I get it, I have to behave as you guys say till I get married and after that listen to my husband, whom you’ll find! And after all this is clear to me you want me to believe that I have all the freedom in the world.)


I don’t know if ever guys hear this argument
These were just examples and they do happen in today’s world. We still say that we treat gals and guys at the same level. We say that we are free. The truth is that we are slave of our own small world.

4 comments:

  1. then how do u apply what you say .. as in your tagline "i write about what i see everyday around me.. i believe many times big problems have really small solutions n they come from our evryday life.."

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  2. bankas.. i'll give u a befitting reply soon.. guyz life in INDIA is tougher dan gals (xcept dose bpl's)..

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  3. @aki: thats my point of writing this blog. there are many problems in my life or problems i see people tackling. i believe may be if i highlight these problems, people might think abt them n a simple solution might be given.

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